Friday, September 25, 2009

it's broken?

well it has already begun. carter at the age of seven months has broken his first bone. he was a victim of neglect, as his mother left him on the bed unattended, from which he fell off and broke his femur. and his parents, being the caring and loving parents that they are, didn't even take him to the doctor until 5 days later. in our defense, he didn't cry enough to evoke panic or serious concern in either of us or his maternal grandmother (she was here when it happened). he cried the first day (but not a 'i broke my leg' cry) and we discovered that he would not put weight on his left leg when held in the standing position. but as the day progressed he seemed to be doing much better and we decided to wait and see how he felt the next day. there was no redness, bruising, swelling, deformity, he could move his leg and all his joints, and i was not able to locate a particular point of pain as i squeezed up and down his leg. so we waited. his behavior was mostly normal (note that he was also teething and had a diaper rash at this time) but still no weight on the leg. so when the flamingo stance thing didn't go away, we went to the doctor. after an xray, the doctor came in and told me his femur was broken.... after i realized that he wasn't joking, i felt terrible. poor kid, we had been squeezing and moving that poor leg around for days trying to diagnose what was wrong. i know i am possibly the worst mother i know. i saw the xrays and it was a break all the way across his femur right above his knee. thank heaven it was above the growth plate and the doctors say he should heal normally and will have no future problems. the next day we went to an orthopedic doctor (who told us he had a bi-cortical buckle fracture) and they casted his poor chubby leg. he held perfectly still and just like before he didn't even cry.



so this is carter while his leg was broken, but before we knew. he was still moving all around on it when it was broken (another reason i thought that for sure it wasn't broken).














this is carter at lake powell the day after he got his cast. he was a great baby the whole time and he didn't seem to mind hanging out in the pack and play.









and this is carter after he wiggled out of his cast. thankfully it was the day we already had an appointment.













and this is carter with his new removable splint. after we went to the doctor they said it was healing great and he was already making new bone. his skin was really red behind his knee so they decided to put the splint on so i can take it off, bathe him, and put cream on his poor skin. i think he likes his few moments of freedom.












the cast has not slowed him down; he scoots, and rolls, and sits, gets on his hands and knees and shimmies all over the place. the cast doesn't seem to bother him and for that i am grateful. hopefully he will only need it for a few more weeks. we love you carter

10 comments:

Clint and Tiffany said...

Poor kid! Well, actually let me rephrase that because he doesn't seem to care. Poor Mom! That's the worst! Don't worry, we all have our crappy mom ribbons and I'm sure Michele will tell you about when she broke Beckie's leg! Trust me, you are SO not alone on this one. Good job for taking him in though!

Erin-lou said...

I don't know if I should laugh but I kinda want to. I know the feeling of letting a child fall off a bed or down stairs, good thing babies heal quickly. I love that he got out of his cast. That is so cute.

Jessie Lewis said...

Wow a broken leg from falling off the bed? I'm so surprised Maddie hasn't broken her neck with the numerous falls she takes daily. Seems like Carter is a stud.

Burdett Family said...

poor guy. I would have probably done the same thing.

Ami said...

He is such a good baby!! I can't believe he got out of his cast. Miss you!!

Andy and Michele said...

Isn't it amazing how a HUGE cast doesn't slow them down! I can't believe that he wiggled out of it, oh wait, he is Ty's son! I know exactly how you feel, like you're a horrible mom, except that I actually broke Beckie's leg (she was two)! I thought it'd be fun to jump on the trampoline with her, needless to say I don't think I've been on a trampoline since (hmmm, that's kinda sad!) I'm glad he's healing fast!

Stef said...

Oh man. Babies are so strong. Kobe broke his arm when he was just 11 months. They cry some and then they are done...You are not a bad mother. You figured it out...he is a boy, for pete's sake. I put a piano on my kid...so now who wins the mother of the year...ha

Ami said...

My kids keep asking me to see the pictures of Carter and his broken leg. They love that he got his cast off.

taryn said...

awww... poor little guy! he actually looks happy that he broke his leg.

JessandBen said...

Jordan! Happy to know that you have a blog!! Your baby is SO darling, I am not kidding! ahh! Just wanna eat him! Well, glad his leg is getting better. Dont feel guilty. We have already made 3 trips to the ER for Kaitlyn!